" Why Is Change So Difficult ?" An Article to be read !

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 Recently, I discovered that change can be very challenging. Especially when you want to change yourself to be a better version of yourself. I reckon that change can be quite intense because we are so used to our comfort zone.

Therefore, I  strongly recommend that we let ourselves be patient with our own self. Because real change cuts deeper than just doing something differently. It means shifting habits, identities, and beliefs you have probably carried for a long time. Even when parts of you want to change, there's still  a part of you that thinks it is still safer sticking to your old ways- even if they're not good for you.

WHY I CHOSE TO CHANGE MYSELF?

That, my friend, is because I want a new change in my life. I am already sick of my old ways of doing things to myself. I want a new and fresh start. Of course, the past will still be part of me, but I think it has taught me a lot of lessons in life. And right now, I am ready for a change. There are still days when I question myself, " Why is it so difficult to change, despite that I want to change?". I cried and cried, not knowing why I still have these feelings of sadness and fear in me. But I guess it's ok to not be ok sometimes because we are all human anyway. We are not robots who don't have feelings. We are human beings, meaning we have our ups and downs. And that's ok.





Written by Jocelyn Ng Shu Yee.



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